WELCOME TO THE 21ST CENTURY:

MARRIAGE Is Like A Shoe. "MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize, be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life".  One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter.  Dear Singles, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:  PHYSICAL APPEARANCE : Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife.  POSITION : All sizes of shoes are not placed in t...

Don't Marry because of PITY or Out of PITY. Don't Marry Because of SEX, Don't Marry because you are getting OLD, Don't Marry because you are of AGE, Don't Marry because you are LONELY, Don't Marry because you Need someone to Support you FINANCIALLY.  Don't Marry because you Mistakenly Got PREGNANT for Him.  Don't Marry because you don't want to LOSE the person. Don't Marry because of Family PRESSURES. Don't Marry because you Like the IDEA Of Marriage. Don't Marry because of PITY or Out of PITY. Don't Marry because of TRIBE. Don't Marry because you Admire the WEDDING GOWN you Saw. Don't Marry because you Love KIDS. Don't Marry because all your Friends are getting Married. Don't Marry because of Physical/ Academic Qualifications.  But Marry Because you want to Fulfil DESTINY. Mary Only the person you are willing to BECOME! Marry for genuine companionship, Fellowship to fulfill God's Purpose. And when you do... Be Dee...